Does Your Partner…
- Try to control you?
- Get jealous or accuse you of cheating?
- Expect you to check-in all the time?
- Embarrass you or put you down?
- Threaten to hurt you or your pets?
- Make you feel like you don’t have the right to say no?
- Isolate you from your family and friends?
- Make decisions for you?
- Mess with your stuff?
- Physically restrain you or use force?
- Threaten or force unwanted sexual activity?
- Share inappropriate information about you?
- Easily lose their temper?
- Scare you by: acting violent; driving dangerously; yelling or calling you names; slamming doors; hitting, kicking, punching or throwing things?
- Tell you that you are nothing without them?
- Use substances as an excuse for their behavior?
- Blame you for their behavior?
- Use force or violence to solve their problems?
- Have access to guns, knives or other deadly weapons?
- Expect you to follow their orders?
- Have a history of violence? Were they abused as a child?
- Demand complete control of your finances?
- Ignore you or your feelings?
- Threaten to kill themselves or you?
- Experience extreme mood swings?
- Demand to look through your social media or cell phone?
- Take your cell phone to prevent you from calling for help.
Do You…
- Feel scared of how your partner will act?
- Make excuses or apologize to others for your partners behavior?
- Try not to cause conflict or make your partner angry?
- Feel like you can never make your partner happy?
- Always do what your partner wants, instead of what you want?
- Fear what may happen if you leave your partner?
- Feel trapped?
- Need to justify all of your thoughts or actions to your partner?